Growing up Country

Introduction

The Land

The People

The Story

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Saturday

Sunday

Thursday

If there were not a seasonal job that took precedence, Thursday morning and on into the afternoon, until it was time to go out, was given to sewing. It was ladies' work compared to the work of Monday and Tuesday. Before they settled down, clean aprons were found and hair freshly combed. Already the usual, regular, morning work had been done, the making and cleaning up from breakfast, the feeding of the animals and the milking of the cow. Mama had probably taken time to call Aunt Lillie and Grandma. They talked every day.

Sewing could be as utilitarian as making towels or as special as a silk dress. All towels were coarse cotton, hemmed. If they were dishtowels, the two narrow edges were bound with printed cotton left from making someone's dress. Cloths for spreading over the top of food left on the table from Sunday dinner for Sunday night's supper were lighter weight, probably well-worn tablecloths, cut down and hemmed. Damask tablecloths were sometimes bought unhemmed and then hemmed.

When an apron had to be cut out, the well-worn pattern came out of the wardrobe. The pattern, the cloth and scissors were taken into the dining room where the apron was cut on the dining room table. Knives and forks were laid on the smoothed out tissue, the pattern pieces laid and re-laid so that the apron could be cut from the minimum amount of yardage that had been bought. Material for dresses was similarly cut. Mama pinned and basted the pieces together; Aunt Merica did most of the machine sewing. Things did and didn't fit; long seams of tiny machine stitches were picked out; darts were taken and released. The presser foot was replaced with appropriate size hemmer foots to quickly turn under and stitch hems. My favorite was the tiny, tiny hemmer. It was used to hem yards of narrow material which, when the ruffler foot was put on and the strip fed through under its tongue, turned ordinary cloth into beautiful ruffle trim. Finally, an acceptable garment emerged.

Miss Irene, the community seamstress, came if there was lots of sewing to do. She came, years later, to make my trousseau. Dresses and altered coats flew out from under the machine. When she came, Mama always had a company dinner. A chicken would be killed the day before and while we sewed, it cooked on the kitchen stove. Then Aunt Merica would make dumplings and we would have three or four vegetables along with hot bread and dessert. Sometimes Daddy was home.

Afternoon sewing in August was made more pleasant by moving the machine out onto the front porch or into the back hall. By leaving the hall door open plenty of light poured in but best of all was the cool breeze that came through from the west. Here Aunt Merica made the blue and white checked cotton dress for my doll, Nancy Jane, using scraps from one of the three checked cotton dresses she had just made for me to start school in town. I folded these lavender, green and blue dresses and put them in the buttermilk blue chest, passed on to me by Aunt Merica for my clothes. It was here in the back hall that Aunt Merica made a dress for the girl who lived in the tenant house on the other side of the garden and one for the little Gypsy girl who lived in a tent below our house near the spring. Every summer the gypsies came. None of our chickens were stolen. None of the tools in the shed disappeared. All of us neighbors bought the beautiful baskets they made.

Sewing continued into Friday if there were no seasonal jobs and no company was coming on Saturday or Sunday. Otherwise, Friday had its duties. Sewing on Friday ended sharply at five o'clock. Ended until next Thursday, no matter how badly I wanted my dress to be finished. There was a lot of waiting. Aunt Merica might remind me that at least I didn't have to weave the cloth as she had had to as a young girl. Nor grow flax nor spin as she and her Mother had done. Nor did I, I thought, have any place to tack up poems. Aunt Merica said she tacked them on the big loom and memorized them as she wove.

The depression ate into us gradually. Easter outfits that would have been bought without forethought, now caused Mama to hesitate. Material at ten cents per yard in the mail order catalogues had to be studied over, material for only one or two dresses ordered. The coarser feed sack material began to be used, a hard decision for Mother to agree to, but finally acceptable when all the neighbors started using it. Grandma bought spring coats for my cousin and me.

Early in the morning I would lie in bed and listen to the conversations in the kitchen. After Aunt Merica went out to milk the cow, Mama and Daddy would begin to talk about the family's needs. Sometimes I would hear Mama crying. Sometimes she would say, “But, Henry, they just have to have shoes.”

The depression deepened. Daddy's work was sporadic. His wages dropped and dropped. Finally, he said, “I refuse to work for less than three dollars a day.” He kept searching for work.

I kept growing out of clothes. Aunt Merica took her good wool dress, dyed it and some cotton sheeting a nice green to make a jumper and blouse for me. They took another beige garment and some softer matching cloth to make a skirt and blouse. Two outfits for one year at school. It wasn't long before I discovered mix and match and had four outfits. Quietly, they began work on a coat for me. Mama gave her once new, beautiful fur-trimmed coat that she and Daddy had bought in Roanoke. It was made into a plain, beige coat for me. After that, all winter, Mama stayed home to cook dinner to have ready for us when we came home from church. Daddy went alone to the winter school functions, wearing the same blue suit Mama cleaned and pressed each Saturday.

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Rock garden with tenant house in the background.

SRD : As I was growing up, this hill was filled with perennials.


"Depression Folk" on the front steps of the house.

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