Growing up Country

Introduction

The Land

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Monday

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Wednesday

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Wednesday

Wednesday morning, as soon as breakfast was over and everything had been cleaned up in the kitchen, Mama brought the laid-aside clothing from the previous day's ironing into the house and put the pile down beside the rocking chairs. Aunt Merica got little bundles of rolled-up scraps of cloth from the basket in the closet and, from the wardrobe shelf, took down the heavy little black box with its stubbed gray corners. I liked this box. It held dozens and dozens of buttons: black and white; bone, metal, wood, and mother of pearl; all shades of color. I liked to pour them out and try to find matching pairs or line them up in descending size or same sizes or same colors. Or choose an especially pretty one for Aunt Merica to sew on my doll's dress. Mama and Aunt Merica took their own sewing baskets from the top of the sewing machine hood and settled themselves to do the week's mending.

Aunt Merica darned socks. She would stick her fist down the long stocking that belonged to me or the short dark silky Sunday sock that belonged to Daddy, pull it tight enough to reveal any weakening at the toe, and then attack the spot with her long darning needle threaded with the appropriate darning cotton. Back and forth, back and forth, in and out that needle went.

Mama turned Daddy's shirt collar, if it was ready for turning. They laughed and talked about the time Miz So-and-So was wearing a twice-turned dress. Now, only shirt collars got turned.

Aunt Merica darned weak places in the tablecloths, the dishtowels, and maybe even the sheets. Sheets, however, when they began to show weakness, were torn apart down the middle, the torn edges hemmed and the two outer sides sewed together on the sewing machine to form a new sheet, strong in the center and weak at the edges where it mattered less. This morning they might lay aside a sheet to do later, when they got out the sewing machine.

Rips were mended, buttons tightened or replaced, snags patched. I liked to watch the patch being fitted to the underside of the garment beneath the hole. If it were one of our dresses or one of the colored aprons being worked on, great care was taken to align the design of the patch to that of the garment so that at even a near distance, the patch went unnoticed. The patch's edges were carefully turned under and the whole thing pinned in place. A quick turn over of the garment to the right side enabled Mama to check to see that everything was smooth and flat. After the patch's edges was whipped in place the hole's ragged edges on the right side were trimmed of fray, turned under and whipped to the patch. As the Great Depression deepened, I watched patches get patches.

Overalls, faded by many kneelings and many washings, were the hardest to mend. Patches might get applied to the top of a weakening kneecap, but snags and cuts got the usual patch treatment. Fingers of hard-working hands strained to push big needles through the double layers of tough cloth. Men of all the farms of the community, all the carpenters, painters, plumbers, wore overalls which were clean and never ragged. It would have been a disgrace to appear in public with a bare knee sticking out or a sacrilege to cut off the legs and go around with frayed edges; actually, an act unheard of. Only the slovenly families let their men and boys out in dirty unpatched clothes and nobody wanted to look like the Numananzes.
Sometimes, about halfway through the mending, Aunt Merica would say that she believed she would go put on some cabbage for supper. I knew what that would be. The big black, iron skillet would be filled with shredded cabbage, some fat, some water and a red pepper pod would be added and brought to boil, then left to simmer until supper. It turned a dull orange color and was considered by Daddy to be great food. Mama didn't care for it. Nor did Mama like fried potatoes with onions. It would take several mentions by Daddy before that got fixed.

As with the Monday wash and the Tuesday ironing, the Wednesday mending drew to a finish by mid or late morning, in time to prepare dinner. As clothes were put away the talk turned to “what shall we have for dinner?” and “while I am out in the garden (or up in the cellar) I will get potatoes for supper.”

Interspersed with the meal plans was talk about the afternoon’s work, work that changed with the season.
Sometimes on Wednesday afternoon, Aunt Merica oiled and cleaned the sewing machine in preparation for the next day’s sewing. The sewing machine sat in the house, near a window. The hood was removed and the leaf lifted up and snapped in place. From the lower right-hand drawer she got out the tiny oil can, the screwdriver and a rag. I watched her remove the presser foot and the needle, shake the long skinny bobbin out of its shiny case, and check the tension screws. Dust and bits of thread got cleared away from down inside the machine. Oil went in little holes here and there. The band got looped into its grove on the little right hand wheel on top of the machine and into the grove on the big wheel near Aunt Merica's right knee. She and I always felt relief that the band was still tight enough to make the machine work when Aunt Merica rocked the pedal back and forth with her foot. If it were loose and Daddy couldn’t tighten it, all sewing would have to wait until a new one could be bought on Saturday, and another wait until Thursday came round again to do sewing.

After returning the bobbin, the needle, and the foot, she chose a spool of thread of the number she would use the next day and a scrap of cloth of the texture of the next day's sewing. The machine got threaded and a line of stitching was run across the cloth. Any oil that oozed out of the holes got wiped up with the rag. Then the stitching was checked for tension and length of stitch. Sewing on heavy cotton was one thing, but sewing on silk was another. Voile and batiste might require strips of soft paper under the cloth. If everything was working fine, we returned the tools to the drawer, left a piece of cloth under the released presser foot (to soak up any oil that seeped down during the night), and declared ourselves ready for Thursday’s sewing.

All the while my mother was rummaging through the basket of patterns and leafing through the latest magazine trying to select the pattern to be used the next day. Some patterns were bought locally; some were ordered from magazines; some were borrowed from neighbors. Many were used and re-used, combined and altered.

The material was ready. It had been bought on Saturday afternoon at Gammon's, the only store in our town selling everything from dresses and shoes to pots and pans, mattresses and stoves. Or the material had come through the mail, ordered after much looking, thinking, and figuring from the Sears Roebuck or Montgomery Ward catalogue. During the hard years, it came from feed sacks, those floral or geometric printed sacks the feed companies started using so we depression people could have clothes. The empty sack (how I watched for the feed to go down and my father watched, wanting it to stay full) would have been washed on Monday, ironed on Tuesday and left waiting to be cut and sewed on Thursday.

No matter from where the cloth had come, nor from whom the pattern was obtained, two more decisions remained to be made. One was thread. For most material, thread of the right color and right number (which indicated the thickness of the thread) had to be found in the sewing machine drawer or bought at the store. If the material was silk, then only color mattered. A more momentous decision was what to trim the dress with. Rickrack, bias tape, embroidery threads, buttons and laces could all be bought locally or found in boxes of leftovers from other previous projects. Any one of these might be used on an everyday dress, but for Sunday best only lace and buttons were right. Aunt Merica used to press and then carefully fold the material, tucking the selected trim and thread inside, and leave it waiting on the hood of the sewing machine for Thursday morning.

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