Growing up Country


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Occasionally we did have some excitement. It could happen any time of year, and mostly it happened around supper time. We might be busy peeling potatoes or mixing cornbread, when, suddenly, Aunt Merica would say, "I hear serenading!" She would instantly stop what she was doing, take the dishpan down off its nail at the end of the kitchen cabinet, pick up the wooden potato masher and go outside, banging away. I would get a pan and a mixing spoon and join her, beating as hard as I could. Down at the tenant house there was laughing and yelling and a thunder of pans being beaten on. "It’s the Hall girl and that town boy," Mama said. "She finally got him!" and everybody laughed and banged even harder. That's how we celebrated a marriage.

Then Mama and Aunt Merica would return to their work and discuss who his mother was and wasn't his grandmother so and so and didn't her stepfather first marry…. The excitement lasted on into supper when Daddy came home and got told all the details and the connections. Afterwards, the next day or so, Mama and Aunt Merica would find a present to send down. When Aunt Lillie came to visit or we went down to Miss Cynthia's we learned where they were going to live and how in the world they had enough money to set up housekeeping at their age. They didn't talk about that on the telephone -- unless the family didn't have a telephone.

The telephone, the party-line-telephone, was the great life line for the country families. By listening in, you learned if someone was sick, or having company or going to the bank for business. Mama, Aunt Lillie and Grandma talked by phone every day. One day each summer Aunt Lillie would announce that the thrashers were coming. Grandma lived too far away to be included, but Aunt Merica and Mama immediately started making plans for going to help Aunt Lillie. What fruit or vegetable had to be canned before they took the day off? What weekly work had to be put off or done early? How would their going effect the work that was done daily? All adjustments would be made, for making dinner for the thrashers was one of the big events of the summer. The owner of the thrasher might come from a distant part of the county, but the rest of the men who helped were from the neighboring farms. Today they all helped Uncle Charlie; tomorrow and the next tomorrows he helped each of them. The farmer's wife supplied the dinner, and at Uncle Charlie's the dinner was the best. First off, there was chicken pie, big pieces of chicken baked in a golden brown crust. There were platters of ham and bowls of cooked beef. There were cooked vegetables of every kind. There were platters of sliced tomatoes of all colors. There were big bowls of apple sauce. There was light bread and rolls. There was butter and jam and jelly. There were pies and caramel frosted cake that had given so much trouble getting it to do right. There was water, milk and coffee. When all in the kitchen agreed that everything was ready Uncle Charlie brought the men in to the back porch and told Aunt Lillie to dish up the food so it could be cooling off while they washed up.

We played 42 out on the front porch, sitting in the swing and the big caned chairs. When all the men were fed and had returned to the barn, we and all those that cooked, ate. Later, much later, after they had sat down for a rest, Aunt Merica, Mama, Joe and I walked home and as we neared the house we could hear the pigs squealing for the dinner they had not gotten.

Weeds grew just as fast as did our vegetables. Each area of the garden was hoed out at least three times and then laid by. As summer lengthened into fall the weeds took over the potato patch, the onion bed and all the pea space that had not been re-planted as fall garden. Aunt Merica and Mama pulled the onions and spread them out in the shed to dry. Daddy, after work, dug the potatoes, one or two rows at a time. I followed close behind, watching to see the shiny brown globes unearthed from the dark brown soil. My hands would dart for a newly uncovered one as Daddy warned against getting too close to the mattock. For me, each dug up hill produced surprise and wonder. The potatoes were stored in bins in the cellar twelve to fourteen bushels in all. Other bins were empty, waiting for apples. •

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German Chocolate Cake
baked in a square pan


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